You could try to lure you muse of the closet using cookies (or sexual favours .. which ever fits).
Gaming groups respond well to cookies too I noticed (was kinda tough with the last group I was in tho, one had a severe nut allergy, and two were lactose intollerant - meant lots of cookies for me tho), Pizza works well too ... but if you REALLY want a a rsponse (or Nocturne knocking at your door) try Nachos!